Have you ever cheated on someone you were in a relationship with? Similarly, have you been cheated on and if so, what did you do about it? Could you ever trust someone again if they cheated on you?
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Once, a long time ago. I am fairly certain she was hooking up with someone else also, but I didn't really care. I had fun, and don't regret it to be honest. I wouldn't cheat now, but that relationship THEN was on the way out. Haven't done it since.
Have I been cheated on?
Sorta, but not really. The Czech girl told me was dating a girl. I was ok with that. What she didn't tell me was that this girl's boyfriend was also playing with them both. I know she also hooked up with a few other people when I was with her. What can I say? First long term relationship and I was dumb? Live, love, and learn.
What I do about it? Nothing. We just let it go, and moved on.
I don't place a high degree of importance on monogamy. I do expect to be told though if/when someone I am with is playing with other people. Flirting, don't need or expect to be told.
Edited at 2015-06-02 07:23 am (UTC)