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Fast Friendship To Relationship
lj_bot wrote in writersblock
Have you ever had a friendship where you became close incredibly fast, and felt like you could become even more than friends just as quickly? If so, what did you do? What did your friend do? How did it feel?

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Well it took a while, but eventually I married him.
It's been nearly 8 years since we met.
We're expecting out first child in a couple of weeks.
It felt right from the start, but it was a bumpy road sometimes.
It was also totally worth it.


We knew each other 5 years before getting married, we're married close to 30 years with 3 kids. It's never totally smooth, but the bumps in the road make you stronger. It is so completely worth the effort; nothing worth having is easy, and people would do well to remember that.

He started out by telling me he could fix my "mademoiselle" status and asking me how many kids I wanted! We became best friends first; since we were in the same field of study, we often reviewed for tests together. It always felt like we were headed for marriage.

We started out as friends with a listening ear for each other. All the things we go through are so similar and yet we all made different choices. It is difficult to find someone who understands. Now we are lovers and despite of the difficulties we face daily, we understand the challenges ahead and appreciate the days we are sharing together.

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